what is better to choose between my heart and future?

Your future will influence her future as well. She is young, I’m sure she’ll do just fine with your mother. It also depends on how long you will be gone for.

Ask yourself if you do NOT take this opportunity, will you ever regret it? Will you ever blame your child for a missed career?

how long does this scholarship last? is it in a safe country where you can find someone to babysit or does the school have daycare? well i would say if it’s only for 9 monthes or a year then go for it! and i would bring the baby no matter what if you can find a good place to stay and they have a day care that’s trustworthy and safe, or the university there has one, then do that, you just need to be safe! good luck!

Write down all the pros and cons of each scenario. Talk to your mother about it. Think long and hard about your future and what you hope to gain (a great experience overseas, a good-paying job when you are done) in the future.

Since I have no kids, I always put myself first, but you must think about your child’s safety and make sure she would have a daycare in the foreign country.

Good luck and congrats on the scholarship!

wow that is definelty a hard hard decison to make

I know you want a good future for yourself and your child

now if you go to school you stand that chance

if you dont then you are left wondering and may just settle for any paying jobs etc..

i dont know what i would do in your situation

but we all want better and to be able to one day live a comfortable life..and that is where the decision is hard to make

I was born in the carribean and my parents left me as a baby to come to america..but they would visit me and my sisters every summer until my father got our papers and dcouments straight so that we can come to new york..so i have been here for almost 17 years or more

so you see they decided to come to new york established themself and then bring us here to..

if you do decide to take the scholarship make sure that you have someone that is like your childs other parents..you say your mom..well then sit her down and talk to her about your concern..also make sure that when and if you do decide to study make sure that you focus entirely on that and let nothing come in between what you are trying to accomplish..so that in 4 years or so you can stand on your own two feet and be proud of yourself and be able to provide and afford whatever your child need..

i am 29 years old and i am strugling right now to make ends meet..yes i am working but i am not able to yet to give my child all that she needs and god knows it break my damn heart and so i decided that i am done with struggling..I am getting my azz in school for two years or so and i know when i am done i will have a good damn job as an RN..they make good money..in life we have to make decisons that can better us..

good luck and much success

email me if you [email protected]

Try to find a way to bring your baby with you. If not, you have to suck it up and find a way to study where you live. It was your choice to have her whether she was planned, or you decided not to “give her up”

I’m not saying to give up on your dream but you have to compromise.

Your mom’s already raised her child(ren). Why put her through it again? Unless she’s offering… Either way, do you want to be so far away from your baby for so long?

I wish you the best and I hope you didn’t find me cold. I certainly didn’t mean it that way.

If this scholarship is going to help you get a better job or better your future, Find out if they have facilities for child care. Or arrange for it. It will be harder but you can’t take back all you’d miss if you left her behind.

Will studying in another country benefit your daughter?

Does your mother want to care for your daughter?

i would like to request u to do whatever ur heart says.