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What to do?

O.K i am going to High School in the fall (9th) and I dont know how i should act , dress ,talk, or make someone outta myslef… i wanna stand outto this 1 guy who i really lk an is my EX but he already promised me tht we would get bac together….. but i dont want the chance of losing him?

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Just be you. You have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. If he can’t live with that, he is not right for you.
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canguroargentino
There is only one thing you can do- BE YOURSELF! If you put on an act, you’ll have to act that way for a very long time and even the greatest actors on earth can only hold a character for a few days, max!

You may be young now, but try thinking ahead. What would you rather: someone liking you for who you are, or someone liking you because of what you look like? Your looks aren’t always going to be there, but your personality will always shine through- you should look out for guys that like your personality, not your looks!

And your personality is defined by what makes you COMFORTABLE. If you’re not comfortable flirting with guys, sitting on their laps, kissing in public (which is what I see some girls doing (boys call them “skanks”), then don’t do that to get a boy’s attention- those boys aren’t usually worth it! Be comfortable with yourself and you’ll find you’ll become a magnet because everybody likes feeling comfortable, and you’ll be their model.

And finally, if you think about it, ‘standing out’ means you have to be very different from the rest: punk, goth, clowns, batgirl. They stand out, but at what cost?

If he likes you, your presence alone will stand out to him. If you force it, it may break- like forcing a wrong key in a door!

PS: Concentrate on school more than boys- when you finish school you’ll be pushing them away!

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Shalom
Dress clasys and sophisticated

and not trashy

thw way you act?

Well carry yourself with dignity and dnt get taken in by peer pressure.Try not to gossip or *****

Try and get along with everyone.

And dont curse or swear,Its ugly for girls to swear.

Study hard !

hope it helps

God bless

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illypie
woh, rewind! since when do YOU have to change for a guy. No way hun, be yourself and a better guy will notice you because of who you REALLY are. Don’t pretend to be someone else for a guy. Good luck in High School hun!
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B_Wreck
Wear a push-up bra and lean into guys when you talk to them alot. Act flirty but not whorey. I mean that gets my attention! True Story.
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canela070185
Just be yourself; don’t try to be someone that you aren’t. If he told you that he’s going back with u. He will go back for who you are and not for “somebody else”
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Anonymous
You going to loose him and you’ll never get back together and if you do it won’t be for long, trust me I’m a senior.
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Anonymous
just be real. dont be a faker. get hated by whut you do rather than be loved for something ur not.
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Anonymous
I have an idea..try to act more mature!
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