what are my chances of getting into stanford, harvard, yale, nyu, or columbia?
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while the schools might not care much about your extra-curricular activities, they are still a good idea. You will need excellent letters of recommendation for all the schools you listed and extra-curricular activities are a great place to shine and meet the people that will have the most sway. you might want to seek out alums from these schools to bond with and get letters from.
when it comes to cost, if a private school wants you to attend, they will find a way to help you afford it. upon admission, you will be offered a financial aid packet (given your fafsa and financial aid paperwork is complete and sent to them). it may include any combination of grants (school, state and federal), loans (private and federal), scholarships and student worker allocations. I have many friends that found it less expensive to attend a high end private school when compared to a state university because the financial aid packets were so complete.
remember ~ this will be your college experience, not your parents. if you don’t want to go to a large school where you are just a number, then don’t! the rest of your life, you will look back at those 4-5 years as the time you grew up and decided what type of an adult you wanted to become. make sure you are in an environment that allows you to try out different ideas and at the same time keeps you feeling safe and secure.
As far as scholarships, it all depends on your situation. If your a minority, I think its alittle easier to get money (but very little). Make sure your parents fill out the FASFA as soon as possible, to ensure you get the most they can offer (For need based).
You might be better off going to a ‘new ivy’ college. Those are the colleges that are just under ivy league basically. You’d get a really good education either way.
If you have any questions, please feel free to email me, and I’ll answer you when I can.
That said, as someone who just graduated from high school and went through the whole admissions process…. be careful of looking only at big-name schools and judging an institution based on how good other people think it is. Your choice in a college should be based on a variety of factors… cost, location, size, cultural atmosphere, et cetera. Do you know what you want to major in? You should look into what a college’s individual program is like for the major. Or, if you’re like me and are undecided when it’s time to apply, you might want to consider a larger school which offers a variety of good programs.
Overall, though, I would say to just take your time and focus on doing well in high school and figuring out what your interests and passions are. College is still a ways away.
Your description does not yet answer several questions I would ask. For one thing, if either of your parents is an alum of one of these institutions, it may significantly increase your chances of admission; they may not advertise this, but it is nonetheless generally true among the more prestigious American universities and colleges. More information about yourself would be helpful too–have you taken ACT/SAT yet, and if so, how did you do? (for example).
These institutions have particular scholarships for people with given backgrounds, interests, affiliations, and ethnicities. If one is American Indian, for example, one can start seeking scholarship support from one’s own tribal organization–not a small consideration in today’s age of casinos. But there may be a scholarship limited to Mormons majoring in piano, for example–the only way to find out is to review the available information from various sources. A good counselor at your school may know how to do this.
In general the social activities/sports/etc. are unlikely to be a deciding factor at the high-end colleges; academic merit is the big one (although this was not always true in the earlier and middle 20th century).
You also do not mention what (if anything) you might like to study; it may well be best for you to select a place with a strong program in your particular area of interest. This may also allow you to apply to a school that is not known overall for its high exclusivity, but nonetheless is well known for a first-rate program in your field.
One would hope that your parents will accept that, after age 18, you are an adult and must live your own life, not theirs. If they don’t, of course, you have the option of cutting the strings and striking out on your own–perhaps not ideal, but if that’s what it takes to live your own life, I say go for it.
Hope this helps. best, J
You are on the right track — but there is a long way to go. Asking now if you can get in is like asking if you will win the Marathon if you are only a mile into the race and near the fron