very hurt someone help me!?

Hey! I’m so sorry to hear about the situation your in at the moment. if i were you id confront her about the way you feel and tell her to stop harassing you. if she keeps on calling you, you should report to the police and ask them if they can do any thing for you. for your girlfriend to be doing this to you is very mean and she obviously doesn’t deserve you. I hope this all turns out great for you in the end!

i totally understand..have four kids and my guy talked to a married women..i even lost my job cause of all the lies she told..luckily i had another job at different hospital..but made it even more hurtful. he will call me but when i feel like i am starting to miss him i think about how he hurt me after so many years..i am doing with out him..i keep busy.. and then i sit back and think what does he really do for me?…am i worth more..YES, i am! ya, i get lonely but then i call someone or watch a movie or head to the library..and guess what its fun! not having my heart crushed is real nice! just keep busy. i work out too now and i have so much more confidence…i know the next guy will be the one and if not its okay cause i am working on myself and thats whats more important. keep your head up. if i can do it you can do it. im a 24 yr old single mama! and he is not my world!!!:) smile jack!

Im in the same boat with my boyfriend and I mean exact same!!! I think you and I both know what we should do….when are we going to actually do it….only time will tell….there have been times in the past two years that we split for longer than a month and thought it was completely over and then a call starts it all over…all i can say to you is pray that God will either change her heart or yours to walk away sooner than later…its what I do every night….this pain can only be healed through faith that it will and time…i wish you the best with her or with out her….

You have to find a good friend and have them help you through this. You have to sit her down, tell her WHY you don’t want to be with her, don’t leave out anything. Break up with her and if she calls be respectful when you pick up the phone but also make sure you tell her that you aren’t intrested in being with her anymore. You will edventually find another girl who will be 100 times better. Best of luck and I really believe that love will come your way one day.

You really need to get out of this bad situation. I was in a situation similiar to yours and he did so many mind games on me it made me want to kill myself , but then I realized that my life was much more important to me than being miserable. I would tell her you are through and then slowly take some time for yourself and give it time you will find your way back into the dating world again. Like I found out if you are being hurt no one needs or deserves a relationship like that. Be true to yourself first you were ok before she was in your life and with time you’ll be ok

Sweetie, if nothing changes, then nothing will change. And at this point, each time she gets away with hurting you, she wins. She’s getting what she wants, and you’re the one paying the price. You need to get some help in working toward standing up for yourself. You deserve to be treated better than this.

Good luck, and let us know how it turns out.

You are in a tough spot. You have to make a decision, to continue the relationship, or to break it off.

Write a list of the PROs and CONs of each. Rate each answer in importance. Count up the numbers on each side. Sometimes, even that helps!

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Good luck!

Be a man. You came into this world alone and you will exit this world alone. You don’t need someone to validate your brief existence here.