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simplemiss71

How I revise these sentences?

Ok My boyfriend Ted (33 yo) saw his ex girlfriend out and and he finally talked to her and got closure. Now he said he hopes maybe he can establish a “friendship” with her. I do understand hes happy he got closure but want to tell him that it bothers me that he wants to continue friendship with his ex. Cant tell him in person- he lives way from me right now (ut not for long)

OK want to reword this and tell him this in a note but dont want to sound jealous- just concerned for him. Please reword what I wrote any writers or people with good grammar thanks:

I am happy for you that u got closure u needed.He needs to let it be at that though. I dont want him to continue a friendship with ex because that should be his past now. I want to focus on our growing relationship.

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I am so happy that the chapter in your life with _______has been closed! I imagine you feel better and I know I do. Now we can get on with our lives without distractions.

(I don’t think you should mention the part about remaining friends. That will come off as controlling and may get his back up. If it is really over, friendship with this person is not likely anyway. You may want to read this about why friendships with ex-lovers don’t work…..and you may want to send it to Ted if the subject comes up again.)

http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/33_dating_girl.html

My answer is the same for the other FOUR TIMES you asked this question. What’s up with that?

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This is a really common problem. OK. Here goes:

Dear Ted,

I’m really happy that you got the closure you needed with your ex the other day, but I don’t think it’s a good idea to have a close friendship with her now. I want to focus on our relationship, which is coming along nicely. Inserting her into the mix right now would probably make me feel quite uncomfortable. I trust you, but I don’t trust a lot of women not to play manipulative games. How would you feel if I was close to a former boyfriend?

If he doesn’t agree with you on this, you should probably think of getting a new boyfriend.

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