How do some people remember people’s name the first hear they hear it.?
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I usually look at the person’s face–eyes, special features. When they say their name, repeat it back immediately with a standard greeting, then try to use the person’s name at least 2 more times during the conversation, if possible. Ask them questions, if appropriate, and listen to try to find out at least 1 interesting thing about that person that is unique. Then tie it to their name in your mind. As I walk away, I whisper the person’s name to myself about 5 or so times and then use a mnemonic trick if needed.
If you forget a person’s name, don’t be afraid to say, “What is your name again? I’d like to remember, but I just can’t seem to pull it from my memory.” People usually are very kind and reply that they also have trouble with names. Then try to focus on interesting facial features or something interesting about them.
We also remember people in a particular context. I try to take notice of people whenever I’m in a public place (like WalMart). Even if they are at a distance and I can’t talk with them, I at least repeat to myself what their name is and how I know them. That helps to expand the locations where their name and “information” is stored in your brain, which also aids in recall.
Why didn’t you ask your teacher?
People wanting to learn this skill but having no clue as to how to start, may refer to a book in the library, such as one of those by Harry Lorayne. The topic is obviously, developing your memory.
