Help with emergency assistance to get special-needs child home to family?
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You are in luck- I’m in WV – If the child is really a normally resident here I would contact the WV Dept of HHR and see if they have any special assistance grants- or WV Advocates and see what they say. Sounds like he may not be able to travel alone. I sent you an email as well.
You don’t mention what the child’s special needs are or how long he has been at your home. You also don’t mention if he has ever spent time there, extended time with you and/or extended time away from his family. If the child has been to your home before, knows you well and in generally happy to be with you, than it might be a good idea to try and ride out the homesickness for another few days. Almost all kids, special needs or not, will have homesickness when away from home for the first time. Of course, if he is acting out in ways that are hard to control,dangerous to himself and others or causing him to be physically ill, then he should go home.
Many kids become homesick, especially if they don’t go away very often. Are you sure there isn’t any way that you can deal with the homesickness? Maybe you can consult an experienced camp counselor or therapist for the best way to handle it based on the child’s functioning level. If the parents were willing to send him out of state for respite care they may REALLY need a break!
How was he going to get home at the end of the respite care time? If he was going to fly, maybe if you talk to the airline they’ll waive any fees for changing flights, and if the family was going to drive, they may need to beg borrow and steal so they can get him home. Since this isn’t an emergency it may be very difficult to get help.
Good luck!