Has anyone ever moved before their senior year?
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Now that I look back at it, I am completely grateful I moved. It was difficult at first because the boyfriend and I was a dance team for 14 years. But I survived and made new friends.
I actually thank God I moved because then I would not have found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with my best friend. However, now I am engaged to be married, owning my own home and could not be happier.
Its kind of nice moving, you can start new. No one knows you. I am not saying be someone your not. What I am saying is you can give people a chance to get to know you for you, not for your past or what friends have said.
My best advice, stay open minded. Meet and greet and you will find your way through your senior year and beyond.
Have Fun!
I found that it was a good chance to “start over”. I smiled at everyone, watched how people dresssed, and used it as an opportunity to ask various kids I met if I could eat lunch with them and their friends because I didn’t know anyone.
One good tip is to bring along a bag of candy in your backpack to share at lunch. Nothing breaks the ice like candy.
Smile a lot, don’t be loud, and don’t be a complainer.
One advantage was that I had an accent, so students would come up to me and ask if I were “the new girl from New York”. It was nice not have to always take the initiative.
I made some very nice friends that year. I didn’t have a boyfriend, but I did have a co-ed group I hung out with, so that wasn’t bad.
Also, I was able to go to UCLA, which would not have been an option if I had remained in NY. Not only did I get a first-class education, but I met my husband there, and we have been married for 28 years.