Did you take a year off before going to college? If you did, do you regret it?
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It also depends on what you do with the year off. I had a friend who took the year off to watch tv, and it didn’t help her at all. But there are lots of good things you can do, like voluntary work, getting a job in the field you’re interested in, or travelling.
I took a year off, and spent six months travelling around Europe. I loved it, and I definitely did some growing up, but if I did it again I think I’d rather have done voluntary work: I think it’s important, specially while you have no other commitments, and I think I would’ve grown more that way. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to study, so before I left I applied for all the subjects I was interested in. By the time I came back I’d learned enough about myself to rule out some of those subjects, so it did help me decide. And because I’d had some time to rest, I couldn’t wait to start thinking again, and enjoyed my studies from the beginning (whereas some of my friends resented it). It also made me work harder, and I was top of the class in one of my subjects.
If the point of your gap year is to earn money to study somewhere else, I would only recommend it if you have a chance at an interesting job. A year of waitressing can be soul-destroying. You finish the year feeling tired out, and you don’t really learn anything. Remember it’s easier to get scholarships for postgraduate study, so you still have a chance to study elsewhere when you graduate.
So my advice to you would be to follow your heart. You know yourself best…. will taking a semester or two off make you want to go back and really do what you need too, or will it create a permanent need for freedom.
I don’t regret my choice, because I can’t say the other way would have been better. It was what I decided, and there is no way to change that after the fact. No matter which way you go, if you are happy in your life, the what ifs wont play so much of a role.
Good luck either way.
I’m going back to school now after almost 20 years and going to school full time while being a mother to four kids isn’t easy. Get it over with now while you have your whole life ahead of you. Besides, then you will have the ability to have an income large enough to raise the family you’ve always wanted.
I graduated high school in 1994, yes I said 1994, joined the Navy for college money. I got out of the Navy in 1997, moved to a different state and decided I need to be in that state for 1 year to become a legal resident and then after that year I was going to school.
Guess what I started school, got married, had a child and school has now become a distant memory with me dealing with mortgage, insurance, wife, child, life in general.
Please go straight to college it will make it so much easier for you. This is just my advice, take if you want.
It’s very likely that you could get financial aid if you go now but that the funding would dry up if you wait a year.
Maybe you could go to the college now in your hometown, but don’t take a full load. Just take two classes instead of three or four. Ease in slowly at first.
College doesn’t feel like high school. It’s not usually every day– but every other day for most classes– as in a MWF schedule or a Tu/Thur schedule.
Every person needs to know that they can support themselves or their children in a legal way.
If you don’t go to college, you won’t have much you could offer a prospective employer.
Love yourself enough to get trained for a profession so that you can provide for yourself and your loved ones some day.